This is my most important and life changing post. Relationships are an important factor in life but sometimes they can become toxic. People can be toxic in different ways, but regardless of what kind of toxicity they bring to a relationship, they just have to go. In college we learn that toxicity is the degree to which a substance can damage an organism. This is what a toxic person does to your life it damages and change the way you view it. People who suck the life out of you with negative attitudes, constant complaining, gossip, selfishness, or extreme dependency are damaging you in a way that can cause become depressed and unhappy. We all know that one person who only calls or talks to you when they want something or who always complains about their life and how life is so unfair to them . These people are toxic and they need to go. One way to get rid of these toxic people is to tell them to truth let them know their complaining our asking you for funds is unfair to you. No one wants to be around a taker. Relationships go both ways. Give and take. If you only giving . There is a problem! Taking don’t only mean money. They can be taking time, energy, resources but it unfair to you. Know that toxic people sometimes play the victim. If you tell someone that they are being unfair they make up some kind of excuse for their behavior. They are playing the victim. It also important to know that you do not have to be everybody’s friend, and not everybody is deserving of your friendship. In life you may change friends and social groups a few times. You may also change relationships. This is a healthy way to get rid of toxic people. Avoid their drama by not responding most toxic people want some kind of attention by not responding you are letting them know that you don’t want to be bother with their drama. Toxic people will often try to win over certain people by showering them with compliments or false kindness just avoid them. The less attention you show them the better.